The Souk & Tajine Lunch with new Local Friends – Solo Travel

Solo Travel Has Advantages!

I loved exploring the small town of Chefchaouen, but wanted to see some of the surrounding areas as well. My guesthouse host suggested going to the nearby souk that was open that day, and arranged a driver for me.

I’ve found that traveling solo opens up many unique opportunities. Here’s how I met some locals and was invited to lunch…

chicken tajine with peas, veggies, and eggs

This tajine! Chicken, peppers, peas, and hardboiled eggs – yum!

Meals are a communal, sharing time, anywhere in the world, aren’t they?

As a solo woman traveler, I was a tad unsure about how it would be for me exploring for a month in Morocco. Many of my acquaintances were worried about me going there solo, and sure enough, that made *me* worry! After being there for a few days, however, the kindness, charity, and hospitality of the Moroccan people were apparent. Of course, like anywhere, it was easier for me to feel comfortable in the small towns than in the big cities like Casablanca.

The Souk

Souks are pop-up rural markets in Morocco, where food, animals, clothing, and everyday household supplies are found; they open on certain days of the week. The medinas, on the other hand, are the old, permanent parts of towns. In the medinas, there are established shops with higher end merchandise, prepared foods, sweets, and spices, open every day.

A rural souk outside of Chefchaouen, selling vegetables and household items. Families are here.

The souk functions as a gathering spot for socializing as well as for shopping.

The sights, the smells, the sounds of the souk, and mingling with the locals were all intoxicating. I enjoyed seeing the women with their children doing their shopping and gossiping with one another. It was perfectly obvious that I was not a local, and luckily, after lots of smiling and nods, a couple of women took me under their wing…

We went through the souk together, shopping, exchanging views on the quality of the food, and chatting about our respective families. There were mountains of shoes – you’d have to dig through them all to find a pair! Fatima and her friend helped me find out how much it would cost to buy one of the donkeys for sale (~$25-50 USD!).

Two women in the souk gossiping; one holding a chicken by the legs

I love how casually Fatima’s friend was talking with another woman, casually holding the chicken she just bought…

We laughed together, they introduced me to other friends, and we had a wonderful visit. I was so honored when Fatima invited me back to her house nearby for lunch! I felt comfortable accompanying her, since she had her little girl with her, and we had enjoyed our hour together in the souk with her friend.

The House and Tea

Fatima’s husband, Mohammed, was at the house visiting with a neighboring couple and their baby. As soon as we came in, Mohammed prepared tea. I found that, in Morocco, no matter what’s happening, tea is served to guests immediately, and generally it’s handled by the men. Serving tea to visitors breaks the ice, allows conversation to evolve, and we all know that sharing a meal or a drink brings people together.

The Tajine Lunch

It smelled great in the house; the tajine had been cooking while Fatima was at the market. The turquoise and red decor inside was so bright and cheerful, and I felt right at home. Our meal was delicious, and everyone grilled me about the US, my family, my work, what my house was like, my travels in Morocco, and where I was going next. And, of course, I asked many questions about their lives and families. I learned a great deal about Islam and its five pillars of faith. We had a wonderful couple of hours together with great conversation, and then the neighbors walked me back to the souk, where they helped me find a ride back to town.

The Take-Away for Solo Travelers

Sometimes, it’s difficult, as a woman, to feel comfortable getting to know people when you’re traveling solo, but big smiles and striking up conversations with women is the best way I’ve found. People are usually curious about visitors if it’s a place where there aren’t many tourists, and want to know as much about my culture as I do about theirs. This is the type of exchange and discovery that I love when I travel solo (or otherwise).

If you’d like to travel Morocco solo, the way I did, this guide book, or others like it, might help. If you’d prefer not to go on your own, this tour of Morocco is small and personal. However you go, I’d love to hear your experiences!

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  1. Your adventurous personality! I admire you for being so open, to be able to get to know people like this. I learn a lot from you.
    Have you thought about leading a small group on a trip, for those of us who are not as brave as you? I’d be interested!

  2. What an amazing adventure! I’ve always thought about going solo on vacation. Morocco sounds amazing! Thank you for the gorgeous pictures! I loved learning and being whisked away with you!

  3. I applaud your courage for traveling alone & what wonderful experiences you’ve had! I love how Fatima is carrying that not so little child on her back while in the kitchen. She certainly knows where that child is 🙂

  4. Great article! I have never traveled solo, but my husband and I used to travel together a lot before Covid. We always like to eat at local restaurants off the beaten path.

  5. Wow! The souk looks so colorful with all that fresh produce on display. I think I’d be apprehensive traveling alone in Morocco. When I travel to another country, I usually have a local with me and they help me connect with the locals because I’m such an introvert. 😉

  6. Authentic experiences like this are wonderful. I’m not sure I would feel comfortable travelling alone, but kudos to those who can. Morocco is on my travel list for sure though. My mom went last year and loved it!

  7. I have never traveled solo except for business trips. I had no choice but to find and befriend convention buddies. It would be very interesting to do this while traveling solo. Thanks for sharing this wonderful story.

  8. Morocco is one of my favorite places in the entire world. Your post reminded me so much of my time there! Such an amazing place to visit.

  9. Fantastic post! I think your confidence and following the local traditions helps women who are traveling alone! Morocco is a great adventure! Thank you for sharing!

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